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Former Fitness Model, Brenda Kelly interviews Kelly Ryan in Jail

Brenda Kelly was once a top fitness model and now it appears she’s trying to hold on to something, anything in the fitness industry. She interviews Kelly Ryan in jail once again, poses for photos outside of the jail like it is a tourist attraction and asks the most ridiculous questions we’ve ever heard. Don’t believe it? Here’s one:

Brenda: Plans to return to Fitness?
Kelly: I would never return to fitness. I will never compete in fitness again. This is the last thing either Craig or I want in our lives. We had been in the middle of doing many other things to transition our careers from competition income to build our lives together.

Oh wait there is more…
Brenda: What would be your ideal career change title?
Kelly: Even though this does not sound like a career to some and I know it may sound funny, I want to be a Mom. This is my goal and is dear to my heart. I want it more than anything.

If you wish to read this rather wacky interview, check it out on bodybuilding.com

108 Responses to “Former Fitness Model, Brenda Kelly interviews Kelly Ryan in Jail”

  1. Honking Big Dude Says:

    Wow. That is one seriously ugly chick. It’s one thing to be stupid, but ugly, too? Are there any fitness models who haven’t had half their bodies surgically altered? And who the hell is that man-thing posing in front of the CCDC sign with her? They allow transvestites to be fitness models?

  2. darkstar Says:


    Nah, man…doncha know they hired her for her journalistic talent, not her looks…

    NOT!…that is some rough reading, sheesh…and I have to say she is scary looking…

    I don’t get what passes for talent anymore…



  3. Ms. South Carolina Says:

    I think Brenda Kelly is a good journalist and such.

    I mean it is truly factually accurate that this case does truly involve one of the seven deadliest sins and just maybe the deadliest sin of all. It is truly both horrible and horrific as previously therefore stated

  4. Dennis L. Bates / Founder / Muscle Missions Says:

    You, (Ms. South Carolina) and Brenda Kelly are in complete error on this issue.

    To state that Brenda Kelly is “truly factually accurate that this case does truly involve one of the seven deadliest sins and just maybe the deadliest sin of all”…is a TRUE LIE.

    The seven deadly sins is a doctrine that is NOT FOUND in the Authorized King James Version of the Holy Bible. It is a doctrine taught within Roman Catholicism.

    Far too many people take the words that are taught in the pulpit of today’s churches as complete TRUTH. Everyone should be dusting off their Bibles and reading it for themselves to find out what God’s Word has to say on all matters. Don’t just take someone else’s word for it.

    Most people’s theological views today have been shaped by false teachers in the Church, Hollywood (the movies and television), and magazines and other forms of media that TWIST SCRIPTURE…like the Joe Weider publications for example.

    All the more reason to protect yourself and get your hands on a good King James Bible.

    God’s word says:

    All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
    - 2 Timothy 3:16 (KJV)

    You will not find reference to the so-called 7 deadly sins in the Bible. There is no sin more deadly that the other. ALL SIN IS DEADLY. Here is proof:

    For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. – Romans 6:23 (KJV)

    Two years ago on Christmas day, just a few days after Craig and Kelly were apprehended in Boston, Massachusetts, I published an article titled: You Are Just As Guilty As Craig Titus And Kelly Ryan And YOU SHOULD BE PUT TO DEATH! This article dealt with which sin is the worst, be it telling a little white lie, stealing, or murder for example. That article can be found here: http://www.musclemissions.org/public/124.cfm

    The bottom line here is this. Everyone should be studying the scriptures for themselves and storing God’s Word in their hearts so that they may be able to stand against the wiles of the Devil.

    Sadly, this scripture refers to the times in which we live:

    For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables. - 2 Timothy 4:3,4 (KJV)

    As for the seven things that God hates, here they are:

    These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him: A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood,
    An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief, A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren. - Proverbs 6:16-19 (KJV)

    In Christ,
    Dennis L. Bates
    Founder/Muscle Missions

  5. darkstar Says:

    Mr. Bates,

    Oh please get off your soapbox and stop assuming everyone believes as you do.

    Ms South Carolina was most likely using the phrase ” one of the deadliest of the 7 deadly sins” as a figure of speech, and a description of this murder case, not as a statement of faith. I’m making an assumption, but I’ll take the risk on this one…

    Its all fine and well that you personally hold strong religious beliefs. For you to repeatedly come on this board and try to ram your religion down everyone elses throat is boorish and tiresome.


  6. Honking Big Dude Says:

    The problem with Mr. Bates philosophies is that he is reading the King James version of the bible. A bible put together to satisfy a government mandate, not put out due to any religious accuracies.

    If Mr. Bates truly wishes to believe the word of Christ, he should investigate bible teachings that predate the Roman Catholic faith. Otherwise, he is merely a hypocrite.

  7. KronK Says:

    Brenda Kelly:

    You seem like a nice enough person.

    You have no skills as a writer what-so-ever

  8. Ricky Thompson Says:


    With all due respect you come across like a whore.

  9. Brenda Says:

    You guys are pathetic

  10. BS Says:


    The whole “Christians for this or that” thing has waned and the real world is growing weary of it. You must respect that not everyone believes as you if you want any respect in return. Non of that scripture quoting is going to make a difference at all so spare us the preaching monotony please.


    I’ve never ween a person whose glass is as half empty as yours. Can the negative stuff and try to see the positive, Craig has been caught and is in the justice system. No one can predict the outcome so be patient and wait. Don’t let yourself be so consumed with what may never happen. The only thing that should concern you is if he is acquitted and remembers everything you said about him.


    Never mind, I have nothing positive to say about you except take a journalism class in your local community college so you can at least attempt to look like a journalist. Can you cook or sew?

  11. Phil Says:


    Just conversation bro! I (am) positive about waiting until the facts come out. Just because I brought up the insanity thing, doesn’t mean I think they should play that card! Again, just conversation and questions. I think your pretty negative about Bates, Me, and Brenda.. I’m not a big fan about bringing religious issues into this. Brenda Kelly is a very nice person..She was very welcoming to my family. And did a lot for bodybuilding.com!

    Why would you call me out bro? If you don’t like what I have to say. keep your comments to yourself! Just like I have on this page dumb*ss! And who cares what you have positive to say about anybody.. with you being a negative person yourself!

  12. Msflafit Says:

    Wow … There are some very passionate statements here. Mr Bates good job. Dark star we know who you follow. Brenda you were very pretty at one time but why all the extreme. I once graced the ads in every muscle magizine out there as National Health Products Ms Hot Stuff. But I will never go under the knife or blow my lips up. I don’t like that look, I think women are all starting to look the same. I feel sorry for them. But it proves the whole “What is this world coming to” theory! Keep praying Mr Bates!!

  13. My name is Earl Says:

    I think one of the most startling bits of information is that Craig writes. Who knew!?!

    Odd too that the DOC made the she-male leave to buy a t shirt. I’m thinking all the convicts would love to see the she-male silicone. That top was sooooo appropriate for a prison visit. In fact, I wish I knew where to buy it I have a wedding I need to attend soon.

    And how dare the DOC not allow cameras! Don’t they know Brenda Kelly is a journalist for heavens sake.

    Kelly IS so blessed. It IS a blessing when you help your husband murder, get thrown in jail, find God and have a great friend to come visit you. We are all sinners you know, all of us!

    Thank goodness we have a place for the sinners who murder, we ARE all truly blessed. Now if we could just have a place for Bates to go and blither his rhetoric.

  14. Ace Says:


    When did LeBron write a Bible?

    Also, I have a frosted cornflake that looks like the Pope…

    Your thoughts?

  15. Venice Says:


    Have you seen the movie, “Seven” with Brad Pitt and Kevin Spacey??

    I’m trying to call the Seven Deadly sins…

    1. Greed
    2. Envy
    3. Sloth
    4. Gluttony
    5. Lust
    6. Pride
    7. Wrath

    I wonder what Sin Brenda had in Mind when she made that statement - Wrath I suppose

  16. Torpedo Says:


    You come across as almost robotic…

    Whatever happened to the audiotapes you were going to produce?

    Please answer this question, as I’ve noticed you’ve ignored it - when posed by others in the past.

  17. TenSioN Says:


    When you were going through your drug phase, prior to your fanatical christian days, did you ever take any hallucinogenic drugs?

  18. BS Says:


    Interesting response. It starts off passively, progresses to defensive, advances to name calling and finally an attempt of reversal transference regarding attitude.

    In your own words, just conversation bro!

  19. Dennis L. Bates / Founder / Muscle Missions Says:

    About those tapes. They have been locked up as evidence.

    In the book “KILLER BODIES”, Michael Fleeman quotes Craig Titus from the tapes as saying:

    “I just want to tell them about my case here. I want to tell them about bodybuilding and how corrupt and evil it is,” … “Let’s face it: The whole sport is one big hypocrisy.”

    This was printed in Fleeman’s book, KILLER BODIES, in the last chapter of the book…page 279.

    That isn’t what Craig said.

    Listen for yourself and you decide. The sample audio is only about 60 seconds in length. You can listen to it at this link: http://www.musclemissions.org/public/141.cfm

  20. Torpedo Says:

    Thanks Dennis.

  21. Old Time Fitness Competitor Says:

    Ok, I read that interview looked at the pix. I agree with whoever said those two girls look HORRIBLE> OMG.!!! Drastic plastic, too bad. That stuff can work wonders when done in moderation but can look horrible when overdone.

    The interview, it was ok but pretty empty. Not much interesting, it is almost as if she is reaching for words to fill a page. She doesn’t report on much beyond a discription of the facility and Kelly’s path toward religion. Old news.

    Bates - get over it!!! I believe in god but give us a break - this board is not about your religious beliefs. Say what you want but at least please make is short.

    It definately sounds like Kelly has found piece but too bad it took this trajedy to bring her to it. I am just not convinced that if you let her out of jail today she would be so INTO the lord 6 months from now.

  22. Dennis L. Bates / Founder / Muscle Missions Says:


    In response to your statement:

    “Mr. Bates, Oh please get off your soapbox and stop assuming everyone believes as you do.”

    I do not assume that everyone believes as I do.

    I believe just the opposite actually. FEW believe the way I do. The responses posted after I made my point prove it. There was only one person that said good job and keep praying. The majority were naysayers.

    Darkstar, here’s the real proof that backs up the fact that FEW believe the way I do:

    Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it. - Matthew 7:13,14 (KJV)


    “The whole “Christians for this or that” thing has waned and the real world is growing weary of it.”

    YOU just proved the point I made in the original post.

    I said:

    Sadly, this scripture refers to the times in which we live:

    For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables. - 2 Timothy 4:3,4 (KJV)


    Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils also believe, and tremble. – James 2:19 (KJV)

    This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.

    For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. - 2 Timothy 3:1-5 (KJV)

    In regards to believing:

    He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. -John 3:18-20 (KJV)

  23. Dennis L. Bates / Founder / Muscle Missions Says:

    Honking Big Dude:

    Study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. But shun profane and vain babblings: for they will increase unto more ungodliness. - 2 Timothy 2:15, 16 (KJV)

    Study up!!! … http://www.chick.com/information/bibleversions/

  24. Old Time Fitness Competitor Says:


    Please go away. You are clogging up this board

  25. BS Says:

    To all you bible thumpers out there: blah, blah, blah

    Hasn’t it occurred to you that in order for your pointless jabs I would first have to believe the same as you?

    Sticks and stones dude, isn’t that in your bible?

  26. Olive Says:

    I clicked on the 60 second rec of Craig.

    Very interesting.

    It sounds like we won’t hear the rest for awhile.

    Can you describe how you came to form this relationship with Craig?

    Are there any opinions about the case you’d like to express?

    I understand your beliefs, but that aside I’m not looking for biblical quotes or a “were all sinners type response.”

    Just wondering if you have anything to offer in terms of a hypothesis on what happened that night or the “facts” of the case.

    Thanks for your input in advance

  27. Hoggy Yardschlongy Says:



  28. pat Says:


    You are an inspiration!

  29. Dennis L. Bates / Founder / MUSCLE MISSIONS Says:


    I have provided in great detail how my relationship with Craig came about. That can be found in this article: http://www.musclemissions.org/public/148.cfm

    There are several links throughout the article that you might want to check out.


    Thank you for your kind words. Your comment reminded me of Proverbs 27:2:

    Let another man praise thee, and not thine own mouth; a stranger, and not thine own lips.

    Dennis L. Bates

  30. Damn Nation Says:

    Craig is not capable of reform.

    He has had many “wake up calls”

    He disregarded them all.

  31. shockandawe Says:

    Ace - Too funny! I have a cornflake that looks a lot like the second coming of gang bang queen Jasmine St. Claire. But I wouldn’t eat it, cuz it looks a little too frosted! HA!

    Dennis, you sound like a “reader board” on the side of some halfway house. These are fire, brimstone and damnation quotes that no one can relate to - However, I do like the gratuitous little pat on the back in your last recitation and interpretation of Proverbs 27:2 - Does that mean you’re humble or in dire need of humility…??? I think the latter. Don’t look now, but you just patted yourself on the back whether you knew it or not. Calling attention to someone else patting you on the back often constitutes arrogance…

    I further drive my point home by quoting you from above in response to Darkstar:
    You said…..

    I do not assume that everyone believes as I do.

    I believe just the opposite actually. FEW believe the way I do. The responses posted after I made my point prove it. There was only one person that said good job and keep praying. The majority were naysayers.

    You are looking for sucking up and “good jobs”??? Man, you really are in need of a humility break today.

    We PEONS, err… the ones who are the OPPOSITE of the FEW who believe the way you do… we losers and blasphemers, we are wetting our pants in shame because we can’t keep up with the “SCRIPTURE-O-THON” you’re staging here.

    Sorry, I’m fresh out of Timothys, Johns, and Matthews. Though I do know a few Toms, Dicks and Harrys if you’re interested!

    Peace out and keep “thine own lips” real …. for a change.

  32. shockandawe Says:

    Oh, and back on point…
    Yes, Brenda is a functional idiot who ought to have been granted a free pass to a Down’s Syndrome Convention. She is about as adept with the English language as a deaf-mute is on the floor of the NYSE.

    Err… anyway, she’s bad. Very bad.

    Can you say nip/tuck?

    Love Hanging Big Dude’s “man-thing” comment. Laughed myself halfway to Kansas.

  33. darkstar Says:


    What I said was that YOU THINK everyone believes as you do. I wasnt looking for a statistic from you to reflect how few really do, although I’ll concede that fact.
    Shock is right…your scripture quoting tirades make you come across as arrogant and self serving. Maybe it was what you said about “vain babbling…”

    Hey, rant on, it doesnt bother me. I’m comfortable with my beliefs.



  34. Ace Says:

    Dennis the 7th Day Adventist Menace:

    Do you believe in creationism or evolution?

  35. Dennis L. Bates / Founder / Muscle Missions Says:

    shockandawe and Darkstar:

    Between the three of us, I am the only one using my real identity.

    The wicked flee when no man pursueth: but the righteous are bold as a lion. – Proverbs 28:1 (KJV)

  36. darkstar Says:


    Now you are sounding even more pathetic. What’s your point, anyway?
    By your latest scriptural recitation it sounds to me like you are singling yourself out as the “righteous” one…Bold as a lion? Me thinks not. I think you have had just a few too many sips of your own kool aid…

    You have some nerve to insinuate that “we” as opposed to “you” are “wicked”…How do you figure that, anyway? You got some chutzpah, I’ll give you that…especially when you know NOTHING about either one of us…Besides, you could be someone masquerading as Dennis Bates…this is the INTERNET, remember? I mean, it isnt outside the realm of reality, now is it…?

    Just because you say so doesnt make it so…


  37. marsha Says:

    Is this the 700 club blog wtf?

  38. moderate biceps Says:


    Do you still workout?

  39. hector sanchez the 9th Says:


    I’m using my real identity …I have a doctorate in world religions…I studied with Huston Smith at U.C. Berkeley.

    I find your thinking quite myopic and narcissistic…other than that your right on the money.

  40. Jeff Stryker Says:


    Can you speak in tongues?

  41. tequila mockingbird Says:

    Bacon is delicious

  42. Msflafit Says:

    You can’t change or instruct some of these people, because they have it all figured out. Just pray for them and stick to your guns. It goes to show you how mean and insenitive the godless can be. Poor Brenda. Kelly and Craig are paying the piper.

  43. peepeehead Says:

    Hey Dark star! That’s Master Bates to you Buddy!!

  44. peepeehead Says:

    Ms Fit,

    Are you the hot Ms Fitness chick from the old hot stuff ads?

  45. cocklover Says:

    Mr. Bates;

    Here is a messege directly from got to you!

    May the demons of hell, devour your soul and maggotts infest upon your brains and eat the scum that sits with in your heart. You are a sick misguided pathetic un-human being that will be housed with the devil.

    Have a Merry Christmas on Earth, your future is quite doomed

  46. sad kitty Says:

    Carefull with guys like Denis Bates. These are the types that shoot up shoping malls to cleanse peoples sins.

  47. My name is Earl Says:

    Msflafit you are right a lot of women are starting to all look alike due to the morphing with so much plastic surgery. Brenda, I am certain, was gorgeous at one time. She now just looks like a frozen relplication of her younger self, its almost as if she is melting (thawing), not a good look. Very sad when you see this look because that tells me that is a person who only has looks to offer, no depth. The interviews she has done with Kelly remind me of a Miss America question answer session, again no depth and no real answers with any substance. The only thing missing was Kelly praying for World Peace other than that I think everything was covered. The problem with shallow people is they don’t get it, ever. So while Kelly is in jail Brenda will keep doing these interviews and when the trial hits Brenda’s narcisstic self will be in the middle of it all talking to real reporters and giving exclusives. she is the reason they keep making these reality shows, people see her, listen to her and cannot believe what she says or does, it is like a snake in the grass, you know you should get away but yet you just have to see where it goes.

  48. Phil Says:

    What did Brenda do to anybody? Maybe her interviewing skills are sub par? However, she is a really nice person. I happen to know her and she has a huge heart! Who cares that she had some surgery!! What does that have to do with anything. I bet if you had enough cheese , you would get some fat sucked out of your a*s! Because believe me, I bet there’s a lot of people that need DR 90210 on this site!

  49. BS Says:

    Hey Phil, you think that one up all by yourself?

  50. Tommas Says:


    Keep it up!

  51. ho ho ho mojo Says:


    I’m Budhist.

    I guess that makes you better than me

  52. Phil Says:


    I don’t know what your talking about? That was my turrets..jack#ss!

  53. Phil Says:


    Your not Ron A. at getbig are you????

  54. Stones of Steel Says:


    You Rock

  55. tequila mockingbird Says:


    Brenda has an enlarged heart?

  56. knute Says:

    You should get the Pulitzer prize for narcissisistic journalism…

    God it sucks….I can almost hear her smacking her bubblegum as she writes…”I’m only saying this, because…” You’re only saying it because you want to promote yourself…just be honest…a lot of people promote themselves…your just doing it in a disgusting yet air-headed way.

    When your biggest supporter is “The Rambling Freak” you got a problem

  57. Phil Says:


    Do you know Brenda?

  58. msflfit Says:

    Hey Earl,
    Why do you think that women try to hold on to youth so drastically?Because that is all that is attractive to men; younger women? I believe that is why Brenda does it for the attention she gets I think she perceives it as a postitive thing and not that people may be surprise or turned off.
    I do have the money… And I am happy with aging and outside of face cream, a clean diet, and daily exercise I fel great about myself and my aging. I retired from the industry not my routine. I had a best friend’s young husband die after lipo suction, I think men are more handsome if they on’t smoke and age naturally I don’t like the look they are going towards either. Burt Reynolds, Kenny Rogers, Etc.

  59. Jablocky Says:

    Why aren’t the feds more aggressive about going after BB’s for Drug use?

    I grant you its an underground sport to an extent…

    …On the other hand these guys are on numerous - very well circulated magazines - month after month.

  60. Phil Says:


    I don’t suggest to anybody to “go under the knife”. However, if that’s what someone wants to do..then I’m not hating at all! My wife got some funbags, and I don’t mind at all! If it makes you feel better about yourself, the go right ahead. Plus, I was all for them anyway…lol!

    Now Synthol is a different story! That stuff is killing bodybuilding! I would say 50% on the NPC level.. as well as the IFBB level.. is on that crap! It’s liquid muscle that looks fake, and you can tell who is using it! There is no way to get that sh#t out of your body. It ends up looking like a bunch of scar tissue from site injections! Look at that freak Greg Valentino! Now that’s what’s killing bodybuilding!



  61. knute Says:


    Why do you ask?

  62. force Says:


    Don’t be such a little bitch.

    If you having something worthwhile spit it out.

    What, is everyone suppose to beg for news from your punk know-nothing ass.

  63. deadmanfarting Says:


    What dickweed?

  64. Cyclone Says:

    Titus is going to get off…

  65. BS Says:

    Phil: Sticks and stones girlfriend.

    Funbags? Classy dude, classy. Sure the wife appreciates the way you speak of her anatomy. Are you the best she could do?

  66. the Hansen Bros. Says:


    We have to agree with Phil.

    His wife’s funbags are sweet.

  67. mother Theresa Says:


    You’re name says it all - moron

  68. BS Says:

    Hansen Bros:
    We agree, just think the word funbags is stupid unless that what Phil’s wife calls his scrotum.

    Mo Theresa:
    Nice one except BS is not the acronym you think it is but thanks for explaining the limits of your intelligence. Who’s the moron?

  69. Cygnet Says:

    Uhm, does anyone have anything to say about Kelly and Brenda?
    Brenda, I don’t know how you can call yourself a friend of Kelly Ryan’s.
    Friends don’t exploit their “friends”.

  70. mother Theresa Says:


    My point is that is what your name should mean and not that it was your intent.

    “Your sticks and stones” comment was amazingly witty…wow…powerful stuff.

    I can’t wait to read what other gems you’ll manage to invent…

  71. darkstar Says:

    Hey Phil,

    I looked up those vids you referenced on Greg Valentino…HOLY CRAP! That is beyond belief!! It’s downright scary! The man whose arms exploded, no shit!

    It seems like he put himself in similar (or even much worse) situation than Titus and Ryan…I doubt it would have surprised too many people if he had killed someone, or gotten himself killed…

    Its no way to live, thats for sure…Its a cliche, but, “why ya think they call it DOPE?”


  72. doug Says:


    You obviously haven’t been paying attention

  73. BS Says:

    MT: I’m bored with you, you’re dismissed. Better get back to work before your supervisor discovers your activities and invents a way for you to celebrate Christmas…unemployed.

  74. Mother Theresa Says:


    I own the company, genius…but that’s a nice little fantasy - half-wit

  75. My name is Earl Says:

    ms lafit said….Hey Earl, Why do you think that women try to hold on to youth so drastically?Because that is all that is attractive to men; younger women? I believe that is why Brenda does it for the attention she gets I think she perceives it as a postitive thing and not that people may be surprise or turned off.

    whoa msflafit! not all women try to hold on to their youth so drastically. and as for the men who find only younger women attractive fine by me I hope they get what makes them happy. If a man only wants me for the way I look I imagine when we got old we would not have much in common. Smart people look for value in a mate. Looks are no doubt a part of the equation. In some people’s lives the equation is shallow so looks are a large or only part of the relationship. To say looks are all that is important to men is not true. some of the most unattractive people I know are married to brilliant nice looking and even wealthy men . how do they do it? they have other wonderful qualities their mate found even more attractive. Body building is all about looks and that is brenda’s entire identity so as her looks fade she is left with nothing but a silicone, botoxed shell. Looks are great and bravo for being pretty but it is not everything. I am disappointed in you msflafit, I hope you really don’t believe all men are only interested in looks or just younger women. that is a pretty shallow statement if so. And the men who are just interested in looks get just that and very little substance to go with it. And please dont write a million emails about how just because we are gorgeous we can’t be smart and have depth, the beautiful people can be smart and have depth lots of us do:) I am simply saying the people who obsess over their looks and cant stand to age and their entire identity lies on being beautiful these are the people who usually have little to offer other than their outer shell. The rest of the beautiful people are fine Im sure. oddly enough the beautiful shallow people never seem to realize they are shallow which is why none of this registers with brenda and why she cannot seem to grasp why people are not loving her interviews. sad.

  76. Phil Says:


    Your such a tool dude! Don’t worry about anything that I say about (my) wife. If I want to call them funbags…then I will YOU DOUCHE! Besides, your “sticks and stones girlfriend” comment was out of the 2nd grade you nimrod! Why don’t you come and fight me “TOUGH GUY”! I’ll split your head to the back of your ass. You couldn’t hang with me for a second, before I flipped you over my back and pounded your head with elbows! What a jackass! All over me calling my wives breast “funbags”… Atleast I’m married to a real woman, and not one from www.realdoll.com…A HOLE!

  77. BS Says:

    Threats of physical violence over the internet are as serious as if in person. A retraction will prevent me from forwarding this. Have a nice day.

  78. Mother Theresa Says:


    You’re such a loser.

    A loser’s loser if you will.

    So why don’t you just get lost, you ninny.

  79. msflafit Says:

    Hello Earl;
    Let me ask you something. How would a man if he finds himself attracted to a woman for her depth go about digging? Is it chemistry? Most of the men I have encounter since my divorce have been a disappointment. How do attractive women go about being discovered for their depth or hidden beauty as well as the surface? Are their any real men in trees?
    I am a huge ufc fan, sounds like you may be also?

  80. Phil Says:


    Turn me in, take a picture, wright it down..I don’t give a f*ck! I didn’t threaten you smart guy..I invited you!


    I love the UFC! I trained with the Ortiz camp a while ago. My best friend is his artist for www.punishment.com.

  81. Phil Says:


    Yeah, that guy with the blown up arms said he has never used synthol…lol..When dude sells it on his site! He had to have his arms drained do to a infection from well um SYNTHOL. But, he has never used it…lol..!


  82. Ace Says:


    Please get back to your secret affair with Larry Craig and leave the rest of us alone.

  83. The People's Republic of China Says:


    We as a nation concur with Phil.

    You’re a douche.

  84. Jeff Stryker Says:


    You blow

  85. Lee Baca Says:


    Get a goddamn life.

    You’re dorkiness is as serious over the internet as it is in person.

  86. My name is Earl Says:

    mslafit, you don’t go really go out looking for depth, when you meet someone and get to know them you learn how much depth they have and you decide if that is acceptable to you. of course we are initially attracted to the looks first thats how it starts. most people in healthy relationships seek people who are on the same level with their looks. so once you find someone on your level you are attracted to you get to know them and find out if they have the same level of depth to them as you do, if they have the same values, hopes, interests, dreams etc. IMO if you want to find someone like yourself, then you do what you love to do and be yourself. everything else should fall into place. these people you look for are special they are not going to be falling like leaves off a tree. if you are looking for the total package, just get real clear in your mind what you want and need in that package, then go about your life and stay aware and alert. I think the key is just being very aware of what you want and don’t want. there is no easy way to find men of substance but they are out there.

  87. shockandawe Says:

    So my Ron comments were pulled… I guess Ron owns this board too.
    So much for freedom of speech. But no, Phil, I am NOT Ron. I actually write well. We’ll see if this blasphemy is removed.

    Btw, Phil, are you married to Brenda?????

  88. Administrator Says:

    Write something intelligent and relevant and your comments won’t be removed.

  89. Phil Says:


    No I’m not married to Brenda. I met Brenda way back at a few shows. After that, Bob Chick introduced her to my wife an I. I was using Tom Prince ..at that time.. for my nutrition..Bob was dating Brenda at that time!

    I was just curious if you were BIG Ron.. after you mentioned you wrote a piece for getbig.com.

  90. Phil Says:


    Why are you busting my balls? Your comments about my wife pissed me off..PERIOD! Shut your mouth please. I never said anything negative about you until you popped off to me! Your comments are childish. Please shut up!

  91. Larry H. Parker Says:


    Give me a call son.

  92. msflafit Says:

    Earl, Thanks for confirming everyone is always thinking that I am to picky. I am not going to settle but you are right real men are hard to find as well as real women now a days.

  93. larry slayback Says:

    she is awfully ugly

  94. shockandawe Says:

    Actually Phil, I never WROTE for Getbig.com - It was an insightful post.

    Administrator: … I promise to write something intelligent if you change the paragraph announcing Maura and Dennis James’ civil suit to read
    “the lawyer they RETAINED” instead of “OBTAINED.”


  95. Phil Says:


  96. Jeff Stryker Says:


    Not to be anal…butt “James” is spelled JAMESS…extra S

  97. BS Says:

    Larry: Thanks, I have my own representation but first we’ll let the authorities handle it. We’ve spoken numerous times already.

  98. shockandawe Says:

    Someone isn’t playing well with others.

  99. Orange Roughy Says:

    B.S Your name says it all. Get a life man. What a loser!

  100. Euromuscle Says:

    mslafit you should get to know me babe, i’ll prove to you that there are good men out there. By the way i’m not into young girls. I like them mature.

  101. My name is Earl Says:

    euromuscle trolling for chicks on the internet. I love it.

  102. Chris Hansen Says:


    These are overwhelming transcripts. When I get to your home..I hope I don’t find any wine or rubbers!

    Mr Hansen Dateline NBC

  103. Monte Says:

    Posing for a picture in front of the jail is disgraceful. ITS A JAIL, not a tourist attraction. Pathetic. She should be embarrassed.


  104. shockandawe Says:

    Chris Hansen….
    BAHAHAHAHA! What a great post!

    Btw Administrator, not to split hairs, but if you find most of what’s on here to be relevant, then I am unsure of what your criteria for relevance could actually be.

    Oh well… the rubbers and wine posts are relevant but stating my horror over being confused with Ron (as a writer) isn’t? Hmmmmm….. just curious dude.

  105. waynemortensen Says:

    brenda I thought that you learned something at that last debacle when you were out interviewing kelly. you are setting your self up as a dummy when you do the interviews. go find a real job. please no more interviews.

  106. nomorechickennrice Says:

    Hey Morty- Why don’t you take a valium..Christ!!. If you don’t like Brenda and her interviews urrrrrrrrrrrr root canals !!! Then don’t read the stuff there’ numb nuts”!


  107. dalit Jones Says:

    Ever notice how next to no one cares about any of this? In and of itself the issue that no one cares speaks volumes. We’re a media driven society and this is nothing–literally nothing. The story only exists in remote places like this on the Internet and if it weren’t for that no one would know if it. Sad, like it’s sad that a couple of people that had it made found a way to permanently fuck up their own lives and the lives of a few others, taking one away no less. God does have a plan for Craig and Kelly. It’s called death by obscurity. (Hint: No death penalty but life or a very long term in prison is all that will come of this.) Even that is more than they deserve.

  108. livinginpast Says:

    I read this garbage by Brenda and couldn’t contain my laughter. It appears Brenda is delusional and trying to recap her “glory” days. The interview was nothing more than a plea to “please send money so I can buy pens and paper”. LOL Brenda is trying to reinvent herself and get publicity for herself…nothing to do with a friendship with Kelly. How pathetic! Brenda is a washed-up fitness competitor who needs to back off of the plastic surgery bandwagon. I’ve seen Brenda at Emerald Cup and she is still trying to wear tiny whorish dresses. The most amusing thing I found in this was Brenda projecting herself as not having slept around. Too funny.

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