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 		<title>Comment on Battered wife issue raised. Will Ryan turn on Titus? &#8220;Denue likewise refuses to dance the Titus two-step&#8221; by: free online cooking games</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Feb 2011 11:04:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Sometimes it is better to be a battered husband than to hit your wife, women are loved properly, and avoid hitting them.</description>
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 		<title>Comment on Battered wife issue raised. Will Ryan turn on Titus? &#8220;Denue likewise refuses to dance the Titus two-step&#8221; by: KNEW THEM</title>
		<link>http://www.titusandryan.com/2007/03/28/battered-wife-issue-raised-will-ryan-turn-on-titus-denue-likewise-refuses-to-dance-the-titus-two-step/#comment-20914</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2007 09:16:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Who's more of an idiot Bates or Johnny 2007?????   I say Bates.  What say you?    BAN BATES!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Who&#8217;s more of an idiot Bates or Johnny 2007?????   I say Bates.  What say you?    BAN BATES!
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 		<title>Comment on Battered wife issue raised. Will Ryan turn on Titus? &#8220;Denue likewise refuses to dance the Titus two-step&#8221; by: KNEW THEM</title>
		<link>http://www.titusandryan.com/2007/03/28/battered-wife-issue-raised-will-ryan-turn-on-titus-denue-likewise-refuses-to-dance-the-titus-two-step/#comment-20906</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2007 08:31:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>One quick reply to the Kelly and the glasses comments;  when I was locked up nobody brought me new contacts or saline solution.  After a certain amount of time in county that one pair you go in with well, if you wear contacts u know what i'm sayin'.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>One quick reply to the Kelly and the glasses comments;  when I was locked up nobody brought me new contacts or saline solution.  After a certain amount of time in county that one pair you go in with well, if you wear contacts u know what i&#8217;m sayin&#8217;.
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 		<title>Comment on Battered wife issue raised. Will Ryan turn on Titus? &#8220;Denue likewise refuses to dance the Titus two-step&#8221; by: darkstar</title>
		<link>http://www.titusandryan.com/2007/03/28/battered-wife-issue-raised-will-ryan-turn-on-titus-denue-likewise-refuses-to-dance-the-titus-two-step/#comment-20714</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2007 15:34:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Just as I thought....a fraudulent huckster...

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Just as I thought&#8230;.a fraudulent huckster&#8230;</p>
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 		<title>Comment on Battered wife issue raised. Will Ryan turn on Titus? &#8220;Denue likewise refuses to dance the Titus two-step&#8221; by: Dennis L. Bates/Founder/Muscle Missions</title>
		<link>http://www.titusandryan.com/2007/03/28/battered-wife-issue-raised-will-ryan-turn-on-titus-denue-likewise-refuses-to-dance-the-titus-two-step/#comment-20592</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2007 02:59:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>For do I now persuade men, or God? or do I seek to please men? for if I yet pleased men, I should not be the servant of Christ.

-Galatians 1:10 (KJV)</description>
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	<p>-Galatians 1:10 (KJV)
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2007 23:23:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>God, Bates can't live outside of scripture. How sad - I'd have more respect for him if he quoted scripture and then added something in the human realm.  I think he is trying to claim fame for Kelly's turnaround from druggie harlot to repentent maiden.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>God, Bates can&#8217;t live outside of scripture. How sad - I&#8217;d have more respect for him if he quoted scripture and then added something in the human realm.  I think he is trying to claim fame for Kelly&#8217;s turnaround from druggie harlot to repentent maiden.
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2007 18:30:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>You didnt answer my question. You also assume that your beliefs are everyone elses...

Any idiot can recite scripture...answer my question, ya big pussy. Show some shred of ability to reason logically instead of avoiding what you know to be a flaw in your robotic response.

Answer my question...or remain the fraudulent huckster you have proven yourself to be.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>You didnt answer my question. You also assume that your beliefs are everyone elses&#8230;</p>
	<p>Any idiot can recite scripture&#8230;answer my question, ya big pussy. Show some shred of ability to reason logically instead of avoiding what you know to be a flaw in your robotic response.</p>
	<p>Answer my question&#8230;or remain the fraudulent huckster you have proven yourself to be.</p>
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					<description>...work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.

Philippians 2:12(b) (KJV)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>&#8230;work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.</p>
	<p>Philippians 2:12(b) (KJV)
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 16:32:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>That may be, but the rule of law exists here on earth to preserve order in our society. I dont doubt that KR very well may have made peace with herself and with her god, but she will still have to answer to the charges that allege she broke society's law, and that very well may land her in prison.

Let me ask you this...If she has found religion, etc, whatever you want to call it, and really wants to &quot;come clean&quot; about the charges against her, why wouldnt she simply confess (if she is actually guilty) and take her punishment instead of going through a trial where she might actually be acquitted, yet still be guilty (remember OJ?)... how would that honor god as she is now trying to portray herself as doing? Is not one of the cornerstones of god's law that one confess their sins? 
You cannot conveniently substitute the rule of law on earth for god's law just to suit your own convenience...

What say you?

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>That may be, but the rule of law exists here on earth to preserve order in our society. I dont doubt that KR very well may have made peace with herself and with her god, but she will still have to answer to the charges that allege she broke society&#8217;s law, and that very well may land her in prison.</p>
	<p>Let me ask you this&#8230;If she has found religion, etc, whatever you want to call it, and really wants to &#8220;come clean&#8221; about the charges against her, why wouldnt she simply confess (if she is actually guilty) and take her punishment instead of going through a trial where she might actually be acquitted, yet still be guilty (remember OJ?)&#8230; how would that honor god as she is now trying to portray herself as doing? Is not one of the cornerstones of god&#8217;s law that one confess their sins?<br />
You cannot conveniently substitute the rule of law on earth for god&#8217;s law just to suit your own convenience&#8230;</p>
	<p>What say you?</p>
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		<link>http://www.titusandryan.com/2007/03/28/battered-wife-issue-raised-will-ryan-turn-on-titus-denue-likewise-refuses-to-dance-the-titus-two-step/#comment-20284</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 14:21:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>...whoso trusteth in the LORD, happy is he.

- Proverbs 16:20(b) (KJV)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>&#8230;whoso trusteth in the LORD, happy is he.</p>
	<p>- Proverbs 16:20(b) (KJV)
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 16:26:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>What I want to know is why KR looks so happy...maybe its the love of Jesus that is going to deliver her from this den of evil doers...NOT...

No offense to those who are similarly religiously inclined...


d*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>What I want to know is why KR looks so happy&#8230;maybe its the love of Jesus that is going to deliver her from this den of evil doers&#8230;NOT&#8230;</p>
	<p>No offense to those who are similarly religiously inclined&#8230;</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 08:32:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I recognize Kelly but who's the old guy in the photo next to her?</description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Apr 2007 17:27:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Lets throw the dice and get this case in the courts. $50 on the YO</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Lets throw the dice and get this case in the courts. $50 on the YO
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					<description>jason g,

Not having a phone number in the phone book proves what, exactly? &quot;Squat&quot; is the correct answer.

Why dont you check his record with the Nevada bar...has he ever been suspended, cited, or otherwise written up by the bar for any violations?

If so, maybe you have a beef. If not, I am at a loss to understand why you seem to hate the dude so much. Grandstanding is part of the game. Also, just because CT and KR signed a &quot;joint rep agreement&quot; doesnt mean it is proper. In this case it is being challenged on conflict issues...That is exactly the argument Judge Glass is making...

Is has nothing to do with &quot;This is America&quot; blah blah blah...This rule is meant to protect both the defendants and the people...

Im betting the NSC rules for Glass.

d*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>jason g,</p>
	<p>Not having a phone number in the phone book proves what, exactly? &#8220;Squat&#8221; is the correct answer.</p>
	<p>Why dont you check his record with the Nevada bar&#8230;has he ever been suspended, cited, or otherwise written up by the bar for any violations?</p>
	<p>If so, maybe you have a beef. If not, I am at a loss to understand why you seem to hate the dude so much. Grandstanding is part of the game. Also, just because CT and KR signed a &#8220;joint rep agreement&#8221; doesnt mean it is proper. In this case it is being challenged on conflict issues&#8230;That is exactly the argument Judge Glass is making&#8230;</p>
	<p>Is has nothing to do with &#8220;This is America&#8221; blah blah blah&#8230;This rule is meant to protect both the defendants and the people&#8230;</p>
	<p>Im betting the NSC rules for Glass.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Mar 2007 05:16:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>No, of course I think she's culpable - I'm actually trying to lend a personal perspective here, but just because I do doesnt mean that anyone should rush to conclude that I don't feel she is responsible. If you knew me, you'd know that one of the biggest things I dislike about most people - but many women - is that they do not take responsibility for their actions, happiness, unhappiness, successes or failures. So, these are two separate issues.

But I do think that anyone who gripes at me, saying, &quot;God S&amp;#38;A, why do you LIKE HER so much?!&quot; is just being childish. It isn't about that. We don't have a friendship any longer and haven't since Craig threatened me and Kelly didn't lift a finger on my behalf or leave Craig seeing what a jackass he was for having done it.  

For me, that was it. But do I wish anyone, no matter waht their crime, ill will?  No, not really. I think it's really important to look compassionately at all sides of the issue - not as a bleeding heart or &quot;tree hugger&quot; but as a person who understands that while it was a heinous crime, up until that moment, all of those people were struggling with their humanity. Still are. 

That's all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>No, of course I think she&#8217;s culpable - I&#8217;m actually trying to lend a personal perspective here, but just because I do doesnt mean that anyone should rush to conclude that I don&#8217;t feel she is responsible. If you knew me, you&#8217;d know that one of the biggest things I dislike about most people - but many women - is that they do not take responsibility for their actions, happiness, unhappiness, successes or failures. So, these are two separate issues.</p>
	<p>But I do think that anyone who gripes at me, saying, &#8220;God S&amp;A, why do you LIKE HER so much?!&#8221; is just being childish. It isn&#8217;t about that. We don&#8217;t have a friendship any longer and haven&#8217;t since Craig threatened me and Kelly didn&#8217;t lift a finger on my behalf or leave Craig seeing what a jackass he was for having done it.  </p>
	<p>For me, that was it. But do I wish anyone, no matter waht their crime, ill will?  No, not really. I think it&#8217;s really important to look compassionately at all sides of the issue - not as a bleeding heart or &#8220;tree hugger&#8221; but as a person who understands that while it was a heinous crime, up until that moment, all of those people were struggling with their humanity. Still are. </p>
	<p>That&#8217;s all.
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Mar 2007 01:58:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Cliff note version of s&amp;#38;a's post... Kelly and women like her have really low self esteem.  

Good point, you do stupid things to the degree of how low your self esteem is.  I mean there is low self esteem as seen on girls gone wild videos then there is incredibly pathetic low self esteem, resulting in murder due to drugs, and whatever else motivated Kelly to start the killing of Melissa James.

S&amp;#38;A glad you clarified you feel Kelly should do time for this crime.  I was under the impression you felt she was not responsible for her actions due to Craig.  Glad that is not the case.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Cliff note version of s&amp;a&#8217;s post&#8230; Kelly and women like her have really low self esteem.  </p>
	<p>Good point, you do stupid things to the degree of how low your self esteem is.  I mean there is low self esteem as seen on girls gone wild videos then there is incredibly pathetic low self esteem, resulting in murder due to drugs, and whatever else motivated Kelly to start the killing of Melissa James.</p>
	<p>S&amp;A glad you clarified you feel Kelly should do time for this crime.  I was under the impression you felt she was not responsible for her actions due to Craig.  Glad that is not the case.
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					<description>Redman:  Thank You!</description>
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					<description>I love how she started to wear glasses, one of the oldest tricks in the book is to seem homely for the court/jury. She's just as guilty and stupid as her rock-head husband...dumbasses! lol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>I love how she started to wear glasses, one of the oldest tricks in the book is to seem homely for the court/jury. She&#8217;s just as guilty and stupid as her rock-head husband&#8230;dumbasses! lol
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					<description>how frustrating- I just wrote a long one and internet went down. FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

Anyway...

KNEWTHEM: Yes, she had all of those things, so the answer to your question lies in another question... &quot;If she had all of those things, and you and I assume those are the things that matter, then why didn't she walk away?? - why werne't they enough?&quot;  That's the point. When a person has issues, they don't think logically. They lack something and they are always seeking to find that something they lack. For Kelly,  it was male approval. She never got it at home. It's the reason she was an overachiever too. some of the world's most successful achievers are the most fucked up,btw.

She saw Craig as this popular studly guy who was the hottest guy she'd ever dated - the epitome of an athlete and all she ever wanted. SHe thought if she had his approval, she'd be validated. Now you and I don't see him that way and probably never have, but she did. So through her eyes, he completed her (sorry for the lame Jerry Maguire line there). 

Think of it as a socket - she's the female socket,with negative space and he's the male plug. She got what she needed - negativeand positive - from 
Craig because she gave him that kind of power over her.  So in that situation, it isn't as easy to leave. I know you guys don't understan that - you either Chain - but it's the way it works psychologically.  

If what I am saying is not true, then why did that heinous couple in Canada get together and torture and rape and slay those women, and laugh on camera, etc... and why did the woman let her fiance rape her sister after drugging her?  She never exhibited behavior like that prior to him, but the chemistry was overwhelmingly bad. Why wouldn't you walk away?  Ummm...50 million different reasons, each individual and each fucked up, but they don't walk away.

That doesn't mean, and I've never said, that Kelly shouldn't do time for her crimes. I never said that ever. I do believe she should. She needs to see consequence for her dogged pursuit of dysfunction to the point of destruction.  BUT.. I am able to be objective and compassionate also.
I think these are good qualities and I'm not sorry for putting them out there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>how frustrating- I just wrote a long one and internet went down. FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU</p>
	<p>Anyway&#8230;</p>
	<p>KNEWTHEM: Yes, she had all of those things, so the answer to your question lies in another question&#8230; &#8220;If she had all of those things, and you and I assume those are the things that matter, then why didn&#8217;t she walk away?? - why werne&#8217;t they enough?&#8221;  That&#8217;s the point. When a person has issues, they don&#8217;t think logically. They lack something and they are always seeking to find that something they lack. For Kelly,  it was male approval. She never got it at home. It&#8217;s the reason she was an overachiever too. some of the world&#8217;s most successful achievers are the most fucked up,btw.</p>
	<p>She saw Craig as this popular studly guy who was the hottest guy she&#8217;d ever dated - the epitome of an athlete and all she ever wanted. SHe thought if she had his approval, she&#8217;d be validated. Now you and I don&#8217;t see him that way and probably never have, but she did. So through her eyes, he completed her (sorry for the lame Jerry Maguire line there). </p>
	<p>Think of it as a socket - she&#8217;s the female socket,with negative space and he&#8217;s the male plug. She got what she needed - negativeand positive - from<br />
Craig because she gave him that kind of power over her.  So in that situation, it isn&#8217;t as easy to leave. I know you guys don&#8217;t understan that - you either Chain - but it&#8217;s the way it works psychologically.  </p>
	<p>If what I am saying is not true, then why did that heinous couple in Canada get together and torture and rape and slay those women, and laugh on camera, etc&#8230; and why did the woman let her fiance rape her sister after drugging her?  She never exhibited behavior like that prior to him, but the chemistry was overwhelmingly bad. Why wouldn&#8217;t you walk away?  Ummm&#8230;50 million different reasons, each individual and each fucked up, but they don&#8217;t walk away.</p>
	<p>That doesn&#8217;t mean, and I&#8217;ve never said, that Kelly shouldn&#8217;t do time for her crimes. I never said that ever. I do believe she should. She needs to see consequence for her dogged pursuit of dysfunction to the point of destruction.  BUT.. I am able to be objective and compassionate also.<br />
I think these are good qualities and I&#8217;m not sorry for putting them out there.
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					<description>Kelly may be smiling in the phot but she couldn't get laid on an aircraft carrier today.</description>
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					<description>Hey Shock and Chain:  I think it's also a matter of time before Denue and Saggese go blow for blow.  There would be no other way to save their client.  That's  when this shit gets interesting and detailed!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Hey Shock and Chain:  I think it&#8217;s also a matter of time before Denue and Saggese go blow for blow.  There would be no other way to save their client.  That&#8217;s  when this shit gets interesting and detailed!
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					<description>Shock:  I'm mainly using you're previous quotes as a pretext for my statements since you knew her.  The jury won't be of people like you that know her personally.  What do you mean exactly when I don't know what I'm talking about when I say KR is insulting truely battered women?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Shock:  I&#8217;m mainly using you&#8217;re previous quotes as a pretext for my statements since you knew her.  The jury won&#8217;t be of people like you that know her personally.  What do you mean exactly when I don&#8217;t know what I&#8217;m talking about when I say KR is insulting truely battered women?
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					<description>Shock:  Why are you so pro Kelly.  She could have walked away from Craig many times over the years like so many other women did.  What &quot;spell&quot; did he have on her again?  She had many things such as money, popularity, and family support that other women didn't have and they had no problem walking away.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Shock:  Why are you so pro Kelly.  She could have walked away from Craig many times over the years like so many other women did.  What &#8220;spell&#8221; did he have on her again?  She had many things such as money, popularity, and family support that other women didn&#8217;t have and they had no problem walking away.
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					<description>Hasn't anyone heard of the oldest play in the book:

Good cop, Bad cop?

Denue is playing the bad cop so Kelly can feel free to pursue her own defense. Think about it... I mean really think about it:
If your husband is an intimidating, menacing guy - and I don't think anyone can deny that - and she's seen how he works people over in the past 8 years - do you honestly believe that she is going to be &quot;DIRECT&quot; about her attempts to seek a separate defense???

IT'S HER ONLY GODDAMNED CHANCE, PEOPLE!!! HELLO!?

And she knows she has to be a &quot;joiner&quot; or Craig will turn on her. She is doing some careful jockeying and Denue doesn't mind being the fall guy in looking like they are at odd and disparate.

The single biggest clue to indicate to me that that was TRUE, is her recent comment:

&quot;It's in God's hands... whatever happens, was meant to happen&quot; 

If she TRULY wanted to be aligned with her husband, she would NEVER say it like that. She would be spitting mad and would be practically clawing to get her way - if anyone knows her, they know that, especially since getting together with Craig, she has NO problem voicing anger or venom toward those who are wronging her.  While I know she's not a loose cannon like Craig and wouldnt do that in court, certainly in statements or in other forms, she would make it known. 

She's being passive to save her OWN DAMN LIFE in more ways than one!
And that's something to truly thank the Lord over, after 8 long ridiculous misspent years!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Hasn&#8217;t anyone heard of the oldest play in the book:</p>
	<p>Good cop, Bad cop?</p>
	<p>Denue is playing the bad cop so Kelly can feel free to pursue her own defense. Think about it&#8230; I mean really think about it:<br />
If your husband is an intimidating, menacing guy - and I don&#8217;t think anyone can deny that - and she&#8217;s seen how he works people over in the past 8 years - do you honestly believe that she is going to be &#8220;DIRECT&#8221; about her attempts to seek a separate defense???</p>
	<p>IT&#8217;S HER ONLY GODDAMNED CHANCE, PEOPLE!!! HELLO!?</p>
	<p>And she knows she has to be a &#8220;joiner&#8221; or Craig will turn on her. She is doing some careful jockeying and Denue doesn&#8217;t mind being the fall guy in looking like they are at odd and disparate.</p>
	<p>The single biggest clue to indicate to me that that was TRUE, is her recent comment:</p>
	<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s in God&#8217;s hands&#8230; whatever happens, was meant to happen&#8221; </p>
	<p>If she TRULY wanted to be aligned with her husband, she would NEVER say it like that. She would be spitting mad and would be practically clawing to get her way - if anyone knows her, they know that, especially since getting together with Craig, she has NO problem voicing anger or venom toward those who are wronging her.  While I know she&#8217;s not a loose cannon like Craig and wouldnt do that in court, certainly in statements or in other forms, she would make it known. </p>
	<p>She&#8217;s being passive to save her OWN DAMN LIFE in more ways than one!<br />
And that&#8217;s something to truly thank the Lord over, after 8 long ridiculous misspent years!
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					<description>Jason, it has been quite obvious that you don't like Denue and have personal bias - which, of course, it's your prerogative. However, I think he's the only one saving her from herself and from Titus. I am glad someone is advocating for her to get her AWAY from Craig's monstrous grips.  I completely disagree with the idea that he spoke &quot;out of turn.&quot; You might want to think that, but I believe that it is the only way she is getting to go in the direction she WANTS! If you think for a MINUTE that she signed that joint agreement because she would have, had she been in her right mind and not under Craig's spell for the past 8 years, you're sadly, sadly, grossly mistaken.  

And Chain, Sorry, but you don't know what you're talking about. I'll go out on a limb and just say that. You don't know her history with men and you don't know her like I did. You also have clear bias against Kelly and for Craig - it's always been like that. 

And believe me, my comments are not bias FOR Kelly either. I knew both and was friends at one time with BOTH - and a spade is a spade. I know he was a criminal and she was not. I know she was manipulative and had flaws and issues and underlying anger - and as a former friend I have clearly said that. BUT... if you think that her personality did NOT change once she was with Craig, either you're blind or you're unwilling to see the truth. Sadly, they should never have gotten together. 

Back to issue... 
I do believe that Kelly would be BEST served by Denue. Maybe the defense of a battered woman is flawed, but I don't believe it's being brought out for its own sake - I think there is much more strategy behind it and I personally think Denue is very, very shrewd in doing it. There is much more to this face than we currently are seeing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Jason, it has been quite obvious that you don&#8217;t like Denue and have personal bias - which, of course, it&#8217;s your prerogative. However, I think he&#8217;s the only one saving her from herself and from Titus. I am glad someone is advocating for her to get her AWAY from Craig&#8217;s monstrous grips.  I completely disagree with the idea that he spoke &#8220;out of turn.&#8221; You might want to think that, but I believe that it is the only way she is getting to go in the direction she WANTS! If you think for a MINUTE that she signed that joint agreement because she would have, had she been in her right mind and not under Craig&#8217;s spell for the past 8 years, you&#8217;re sadly, sadly, grossly mistaken.  </p>
	<p>And Chain, Sorry, but you don&#8217;t know what you&#8217;re talking about. I&#8217;ll go out on a limb and just say that. You don&#8217;t know her history with men and you don&#8217;t know her like I did. You also have clear bias against Kelly and for Craig - it&#8217;s always been like that. </p>
	<p>And believe me, my comments are not bias FOR Kelly either. I knew both and was friends at one time with BOTH - and a spade is a spade. I know he was a criminal and she was not. I know she was manipulative and had flaws and issues and underlying anger - and as a former friend I have clearly said that. BUT&#8230; if you think that her personality did NOT change once she was with Craig, either you&#8217;re blind or you&#8217;re unwilling to see the truth. Sadly, they should never have gotten together. </p>
	<p>Back to issue&#8230;<br />
I do believe that Kelly would be BEST served by Denue. Maybe the defense of a battered woman is flawed, but I don&#8217;t believe it&#8217;s being brought out for its own sake - I think there is much more strategy behind it and I personally think Denue is very, very shrewd in doing it. There is much more to this face than we currently are seeing.
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