It looks that way today, but this thing has a long way to go. There are going to be a lot more surprises, judging by what has happened so far…

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I’ll agree with you on that; however, it does look like they are sticking together.

We really dont know that as an absolute fact. No telling what Denue has advised her regarding CT…We will probably only find this out when it finally gets into court.

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You are absolutely right. She should have walked, make that ran, before reaching the point of no return…

woulda, coulda, shoulda…

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When the survey results come in, better watch out that they dont add up to “666″…

hehe…

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I was listening to Carlos Santana the other night…

…Have you ever noticed that if you only remove the first “n” and the last “a” - it spells “Satan”…hmmmmn

Don’t a lot of BBs pose to Carlos…hmmn…time for a survey

Well, she very well may have committed murder. And if so she will pay with her freedom, just like CT.

However, Im not so sure people here see her so much as a victim than as an example of what happens when you let the wild take control of your life…

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You hit it right on the button. I really believe, and I have first hand experience with this, that bodybuilders, as well as movie and rock stars are the most insecure people. Some of them latch onto someone else, some express it by being promiscuous, some drugs or both. I think KR see’s CT as a father figure or something. She still hasn’t let go. I mean, even if She did it, it was their lifestyle that is the root cause.

That is the sad part, her being so sucked in to CT’s ways that she could not extricate herself…assuming she wanted to, subconciously or otherwise…

Having to go to jail to get away from him doesnt seem like a very good trade off to me…but then, as you say, we dont live in her world so who knows how she perceived it…

A few years back I corresponded with a woman on death row, and the letters she sent were full of little drawings, dragons, birds, stuff like that, very detailed…like the stuff you mentioned…not sure of this is a common thing for people who are locked up or what, but it is interesting…

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Yes, he was, but not many people rely upon that power and strength because they feel that they are at the center of their own universe and that they, alone, have the power to control their lives. Then, when it spins out of control, they reconsider. It’s true that the channels of clarity greatly open when you’re in a cell 20 hours a day, all by your lonesome, or with someone you would never consort with if you had a choice on the outside.

I have to say, when I sent Kel a birthday card - out of kindness and rememberance of our past friendship, which we had not had for 5 years - I received an identical reply back. The keep the faith deal, and the rainbows and birds and all sorts of other Crayola machinations, were actually really shocking to me. It was the last thing I expected back, to be honest. I guess what I was hoping for was someone saying, “It’s nice to hear from someone from a time in my life that was much more sane and happy go lucky.

But I know that, to some degree, what Chain said is true.. Yes, divorce is a way out and yes, she could have “chosen” to walk away any time. BUT, Kelly’s self image being dictated by oddities like Craig in her life, is her true Achilles Heel. So much so that I believe sitting in jail is the only way she’d stay away from him.

In her words last summer, “The Lord truly works in mysterious ways”. I actually knew what she meant, and that’s how I took it. But then she followed it up with “our marriage is stronger than ever”, etc… and I thought, “Okay, you lost me.”

Methinks she is missing the entire point of contrition, surrender, forgiveness and spirituality in general, but far be it from me to actually go on record saying that in a real sense… I don’t live her life (thank God) so I can’t say.

I guess my only comment would be that she was not doomed to a life with CT…there is a remedy for that called dissolution of marriage…

Obviously, divorce is not to be taken lightly, but it is available for a reason…

However, I dont see anything to indicate she wanted out of her marriage to CT…or, any indication that she was inclined to stop the lifestyle she was living prior to this trouble…

Nope, I do not think she believes she is better off behind bars…anyone in their right mind would want out of there right now…

Sure, she is off the dope and cleaned up now, but that only makes the reality of her situation all the more stark. I am convinced that every day when faced with her situation she mutters to herself “What was I thinking?????”

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