The only ones who really know what happened that awful day was Kelly, Craig, Mellissa, and God.

Stop judging them until you have all the facts.

CTYT, go f–k yourself.

Mother Theresa suffered so long due to the integrity she maintained and the reverence she had for life. There is no indignity in suffering for the GOOD. Don’t you know the Bible (Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth) says “it is better to suffer for doing good than for doing evil”?

In the end, Mother Theresa maintained her integrity. C& K and Mel. decided against their better judgment to sell their integrity to the lord of darkness. Integrity is something that cannot be faked. There is no deception in integrity. There are no lies in integrity.

As an addition I have always been a Craig Titus fan. After news of his situation I have always tried to keep an open mind no matter how bad the news. I just hope that justice prevails no matter if he is or is not guilty most importantly. If he is guilty, then give him the punishment he deserves. If for whatever reason he may read this, Craig I hope it aint true about you and Kelly, but if so, prepare for the end. My advice is if you do make it out ok, wait some time before you make a comeback. I look forward to the day. Always a fan, but more improtantly a friend, B. Gordon.

I agree that the Ryan family (minus one) is most likely a terrific family. Regardless of this irrelevant fact, Kelly committed a heinous capital crime and must pay the ultimate price.

In a nutshell, you are a hypocrite to the highest degree. Now do us a favor and keep your promise not to respond. Thank you.

C&K have definitely, officially, been spiritually knee-capped. And they may never walk again.

That said, I think it just stands to reason that someone who is forced down on their knees (no sordid pun there guys! - but that is a funny picture)… actually does do some praying while down there. All of us would, trust me on that. Humility, or being humbled by one’s circumstances, is one of those human experiences we likely will all face - though perhaps not for murder. We are all so vulnerable to these “bigger than us” things in life - whether from our own behavior gone wrong, or things occurring beyond our control, or whatever.. point is, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by all of these things, and praying does have the ability to help people feel that they are going to be okay, no matter what happens.

My question is: Why does it bother people that Kelly, no matter what she has done, would want to be at peace with it, herself or her circumstances? I mean, that’s not something anyone can take away from her, no matter what she did. She didn’t lose her spiritual rights being in jail - in fact it’s her only freedom at this point. Wouldn’t you use it?

I do know that Kelly was a good person at one time. Sure, she had issues like we all do, and she had a hard time dealing with her feelings (particularly when she was angry). I watched her struggle with that for 2 years as her very good friend. So, I don’t think it should be such a grave surprise to people that when you haven’t learned enough of the skills necessary to deal with life and feelings, you turn to escapist activities. Can any of us say we don’t use TV, food, the telephone, exercise, drugs, not being able to be alone and always in relationships, etc… in much the same way? Of course not. We all have something that isn’t a healthy coping mechanism.

I guess the point here isn’t about whether someone is going to fry, not fry, get off scot-free, find God, be wrong for finding God, or whatever else.. The point is, all of the things we ALL experience as human beings just went several steps further, and ended up derailing, in Kelly’s life. I’m not here to judge or forgive. It’s not up to me. It really is up to her and her God, whomever that may be.

It really is just that, folks. Evil people murder, but so do people who have had good in them throughout their lives, if something serious comes along and causes a true “blip” on the screen. Drugs definitely are that blip, to the serious extent those two were using. It’s just sad how much drug use ravages lives.. Melissa’s included - who apparently was not in very good shape herself. She didn’t deserve to die, but sick birds who flock together, sometimes peck one another to death. End of story. It’s not right, good, or otherwise, it’s just a sad reality. Melissa’s uncle even said that himself.. He always worried that he would hear of her demise, because of who she chose to idolize and with whom she hung out. That is foresight and reality.

All of this is sad, so try not to be so harsh in metering judgment on anyone - least of all those expressing opinions and trying to make sense of something that is difficult to fathom. Lives derail and swerve off their intended course every day.

CTYT has already judged people are going to hell. He/she professes to be a christian so in his mind the one way to heaven is between you and God and CTYT has no way of knowing anyones beliefs about that as far as I know. Yet we are all going to hell if we dont agree with him! Judgement CITY! Oh and then we are all losers if we dont agree with his comments. That’s mighty christian of you! I know far too many people like this. They are usually the first ones to have some massive hidden repression thing going on.

Anyone know where Joey is (her dog)?

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